Advise needed: what should I do? I am Chinese gay man, but need to marry for parents?

If you are completely unable to come out... The best advice I can give is what an Indian friend of mine did. He was gay, and he married a Indian woman, and they lived as roomates each having a partner for dating/relationships, and the convenience of a husband or wife for the parents of both of them. They became good friends, and because they didn't see their parents too often it worked great. I'm sure there's a Chinese who is worried about her parents as well...make it work, if you want. As long as both of you understand terms of th arrangement it's a great plan! As for my friend, after their parents ped they were going to divorce, but found they liked being friends. They bought a large house, and both their partners moved in. Life is funny sometimes!