Is there any way to sort my son out?

ok sounds to me like your son has a cutting-pain problem going on he maybe very smart but hes got issues so id keep trying to talk to him and watch him cause my 26 yr old has biopolar but the stytoms started when she was 16 and the first thing the counsoler asked me was did she cut herself and im one of the lucky parents never had that problem so seek help for yourself like i did so your ready for whatever your finding odd gets worse and maybe prevent it so take of you and sorry 4 you cause ben and still dealing with stuff justjenny a mother